Spanking is an act of discipline given under controlled circumstances, for specific behaviors or attitudes. It clears the air, so to speak and allows the couple to then make up and forget the offending incident. By dealing with offences completely while they are small, there is no chance for them to grow into serious problems. Spankings administered properly – improve attitudes, increase domestic harmony, create an unselfish spirit, and eliminate unpleasant situations.
Discipline must be given lovingly and accepted as the caring act that it is. Willing submission to the discipline is a must. The one in need of discipline must be loyal, obedient, and cooperative.
The disciplinarian must be careful to respect the health, safety, and needs of the disciplined one.
Putting the Plan into action
To achieve the greatest benefit from domestic discipline, a couple should decide upon a definite plan. Set up the rules and the consequences for breaking them. This cannot be so rigid that it cannot be changed as situations and living conditions change. In fact, regular discussions should take place to modify the agreement as the need for new rules present themselves. The attention to communication is imperative.
Decide upon the place, timing and position of the spankings. Many couples spank only in the bedroom or other specific area. Others may (more…)